My Near Death Experience Was Just the Hook

What Came Back With Me Matters More

My Near Death Experience is what first catches people’s attention. Everyone wants to know what waits on the other side. But the truth is… that isn’t the most important part of the story.The real message isn’t about what happens when we die. It’s about what we are forgetting while we are alive.

My Near Death Experience is just a hook. A way to catch your attention. So many wonder what waits on the other side. Yet it is where they are at here, at this moment. In a life time of many life times that is more important.

Yet, you are here. Curious. Hoping for a glimpse of what already lives in you. You would not concern yourself with the afterlife, if you could begin understand your worth. If you could begin to understand the unconditional love that is yours at all times. If you could understand the eternal being that you are.

You are eternal. The other side. The place your soul lives, lives within you. The key is to be happy now. To understand that this is where your power of creation lives. And to understand your worth.

You are looking for salvation. Peace of mind. Love. You are looking for whatever it is you think that your life is lacking. Yet, all of this lives in you. And you are the only one who can bring any this into your life. 

Still, you wonder how. You wonder if what I say is true. You wonder how, if it’s true, you do not see it. You do not feel it. You are not living it.
Yet, it is true. You are the power of creation. You are the power, creating your life. And the way to use this power, the way to activate it in a more positive way, is through self love.

You wonder…how can this be true? How can self love offer to me what I am asking for? This seems to basic. (And maybe a little selfish)

Ahhh, yes. It is the base of all. (No, it is not selfish.) So ask yourself. Are you truly loving yourself? Can you love yourself fully, for who you are. As you are.

You see, you create through your thoughts. You create through your words. You create through your beliefs. And you create through how you feel about all of this.

Ask yourself…how do I feel about me? What do I say to myself? What thoughts of me, run through my mind? Do I believe them? And most importantly, how do I feel about these words. These thoughts. What emotions do the provoke? What do they do to my feelings of worth?

This is where many falter. They help others. (Which is good.) They encourage others. (Which is good.) They offer good thoughts, good words to others. (Which is good.) But they forget to do the same things to/for themselves.

When you look at another, who maybe appears to have more than you have, be it more friends. A better body image. Maybe they seem more confident, they seem happier than you are. How do you react. What words, what thoughts begin to grow in your mind. Are you focused on what they have, thinking, I can have that too. Or are you focusing on the thoughts of lack. The thoughts of not having “it”, whatever “it” may be. Do yo justify the lack of “it” through your thoughts, words, beliefs. What emotions are surrounding all of this?

If you would treat yourself to the same kindness you offer to another, your world would change. When you can be kind to yourself, love yourself, your mind would begin to open to the possibilities that wait for you to notice them. But you can only find what you are looking for. If you are looking at another wanting what they have, and are not feeling that you are worth it. You will not notice the opportunities waiting for you. This is because you are not looking for them. You are focused on what you do not have. And you will continue to find that.

There are those who are so hard on themselves, that they take their self loathing out on others. Always looking for and finding fault. Then being sure to make these faults known to that person and/or anyone who will listen. All the while, not realizing that they are freezing themselves into all of this.

To love yourself, is to see past what you would consider your own faults. When you can see past these illusions of faults. When you realize that there are no faults. You are on a learning path. When you realize that your soul is perfection. Then you can begin to create the life you desire. 

It all begins with one good thought at a time. That one good thought then becomes that one new word, spoken to yourself. As these thoughts and words grow, they become new beliefs to build your new world. And as all of this grows, over time, with intent and purpose, you discover that your are worth all of this good you have now begun speaking about. You will discover, that over time, you have begun to walk the path of this new life. And it begins to flow so easily, when you relaxed into it and fill your mind with love for you, for who you are, where you are and what you have learned along the way. Because of this, you have created a new path to follow. A path that makes you happy. A path of joy.

When you can accept who your are. Where your are. Knowing that you are always growing. Always changing. Always moving in the direction created through your thoughts. Words. Beliefs. Emotions

So, we are back to the beginning of this circle of creation. Creation is ever growing. Always active. Always obedient to you. To your power in the creation of your life.

It is a great responsibility. Yet it is easy to create good. Love. Peace of mind. When you understand you are worth all of the good you are wanting in life. And then you are living in, and creating through a place of joy. Always looking for, reaching for and accepting the joy offered, the love offered at every moment from our Creator.

Know you are worthy of this, deep within you. Intend each day to seek and accept the joy that lives all around you. And know you are loved.